How To Choose a Handgun: A Guide for New Gun Owners

Maybe you’ve decided to start carrying a gun for self-defense, or maybe you want a gun a for home defense. Or perhaps you simply want to learn your way around firearms at the range or for hunting. Whatever the reason, it’s time to choose your first handgun. Where do you start? Check out our guide on how to choose a handgun. Although this guide on How To Choose a Handgun might be geared toward first-timers, the information is good for all gun owners.

How To Choose a Handgun

When considering what handgun to buy, it can be helpful to first consider what you’re going to use it for.

Ruger LCP II with a pile of ammunition
Is a sub-compact or micro pistol like this Ruger LCP II a good idea? It all depends on your specific needs and skills. Ask yourself: What is this gun being used for? (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

If you intend to use it for home defense, a full-sized handgun might be perfect, but if you want something highly concealable, you’ll probably need to take a look at compact and sub-compact models. Firearms are purpose drive tools, so decide exactly what you’re going to do with this gun and go from there.

What brand of Handgun is the best?

As a general rule, it’s not entirely accurate to proclaim a specific firearm brand the best. That’s because, aside from guns being tools that need to suit your needs, all gun owners have different sized hands, varying skill sets, and other features that make them all unique. Some guns come somewhat close to “one gun to rule them all” but there’s no single perfect handgun for every shooter out there.

Sig P365 and Glock 43
The SIG P365 and Glock 43 are both 9mm handguns designed for concealed carry. Which one works best for you comes down to hand size, experience, and personal preferences. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

However, not all handguns are designed and produced with the same attention to detail and quality. Some brands to take more care with quality control and performance while others care only about making a cheaply priced pistol people will buy entirely because it’s more affordable than others.

field stripped glock
Glocks are popular guns for many reasons including the fact that they’re affordably priced and have lengthy proven histories of reliability and durability. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

Handgun Manufacturers

This is not a comprehensive list, but it’s a place to start with brands that are worth considering for your first handgun purchase:

In addition to the manufacturers that produce numerous models and sizes of handguns, there are those that specialize in custom design, such as Cabot Guns, Nighthawk Custom, and Wilson Combat.

Wilson Combat handgun made in conjunction with Sig Sauer as a higher end P320.
Wilson Combat makes a lot of fantastic guns, including this one, which was made in conjunction with SIG Sauer as a higher-end P320. (Photo credit: Wilson Combat)

If you’re not sure about a certain brand, do some digging. With a little time, you can usually get an idea of the quality and performance of a pistol. Always consider the source, remembering published reviews typically do not include a high round count and that social media comments often come from inexperienced shooters. Take it all with a grain of salt and decide what is best for you. Of course, if you notice a specific brand seems to have specific and repetitive negative things said about it, you’d be wise to pay attention.

Sig Sauer P226
SIG Sauer might be well-known for their P365, but they have quite a few other great handguns, like this P226. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

What caliber is best for a handgun?

It might be redundant to say it again, but there is no “best” or “one size fits all” caliber. However, some are certainly better-suited to self-defense use than others.

Ruger handgun with various boxes of ammunition.
9mm is a well-liked, top-selling cartridge for good reason. It’s proven its capabilities and performance for years and is a solid choice for a first handgun. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

When choosing a first handgun, it’s a good idea to seriously consider getting a gun chambered in 9x19mm Parabellum (9mm). Not only is it a proven, reliable caliber, it’s widely available and there are a great deal of guns produced in 9mm. When it comes to a handgun meant for self-defense use, 9mm is a solid choice.

What Kind of Gun Should You Get?

There are a few different types of handguns—revolvers, striker-fired, hammer-fired, etc.—so it’s normal to wonder what’s ideal. The first thing you need to know is that the days when the guys at the gun store counter pushed revolvers should have ended long ago, but they haven’t. Although there is nothing wrong with revolvers, aside from limited capacity, they tend not to be the best idea for a first gun.

Striker-fired handguns are popular for a reason. They’re reliable, durable, and often priced at a level that won’t destroy your bank account. Their overall operation tends to be straight-forward, too, and they have fewer moving parts than revolvers and 1911s. Glocks are striker-fired, as are Mossberg’s handguns, among others. If the lack of an external thumb safety is what makes you not want a Glock to be your first handgun, don’t worry; there are a lot of striker-fired handguns on the market that do have external safeties.

When deciding what type of action you want your first handgun to have, it helps to have hands-on experience. It’s accurate that different actions have varying feels, from the triggers to their overall operation, and you might find you prefer one over another. Handguns can be rented to try out at some ranges and if that fails, ask friends if they’d be willing to take you to the range with their handguns. Tell them you’ll cover the ammo and you’ll be good to go.

What Size Handgun Should You Get?

The size of handgun you should get will depend on what you’re using it for and your own hand size. Although it’s true that compact and sub-compact handguns can be more easily concealed, it is possible to concealed carry a full-size handgun. However, if you have extremely large or small hands, you’re going to find certain guns far more challenging to operate. That doesn’t mean it’ll be impossible, but it can and will hamper accuracy and comfort. Certain issues of fit can also make grip-related failures more likely to occur.

What Should You Look for in a Handgun?

There are a few specific features and capabilities you should demand of your handgun. In some instances, you have no choice but to use a certain gun until you can afford to invest in one that’s a better fit for you, but when you can choose, consider the following:


When gripped in your strong side hand, the slide should align with the bones of your
forearm. If it’s seriously canted off to one side, it’s not a good fit.

Trigger reach

Can you place your finger on the trigger comfortably, or are your fingers too
short—or too long—for that particular gun? Could the trigger be replaced with an aftermarket
model that would correct the issue?


All calibers are not created equally. Bluntly, there is a reason 9mm is used by law
enforcement, members of the military, and a lot of experienced gun owners. There’s also a
reason cartridges like 380 ACP are popular, but not considered idea.

40 S&W cartridges
Choosing the caliber of your first handgun can be tough, so be careful not to be swayed by opinions that can’t be backed by easily proven fact. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

Choose a caliber that is proven as a defensive round and that produces felt recoil and muzzle rise you can control, or learn to control, fairly easily. Magnum guns are generally not the best choice for concealed carry.


Take care not to buy a handgun that’s too big for your body shape to conceal, and also be
sure not to buy a handgun that’s so tiny you have trouble running it smoothly.


As a general rule, it’s wise to make sure your handgun of choice can cycle through
around 500 rounds of ammunition with no failures. At least 150 of those rounds should be
defensive loads, specially the loads you intend to carry. If the gun fails, the count starts all over.


Guns that are sensitive to be bumped on things, scraped, or otherwise heavily used
aren’t ideal for defensive use. Your first handgun should be rough and tumble and able to stand
up to hard use.

Moving parts

Guns with fewer moving parts, such as Glocks, are typically cheaper and easier to
repair if something goes wrong.

inner moving parts of a revolver
Revolvers have more moving parts and require significantly more skill and experience to repair if something goes wrong. (Photo credit: Kat Stevens)

Aftermarket accessories

There are more aftermarket parts out there for popular guns like Glocks and SIGs. Consider the availability of accessories before committing to a brand.


Are the controls—thumb safety, magazine release, slide lock—easy to reach without
significantly adjusting your grip? They should be.


Decide how much ammo you’d like your first handgun to hold. Remember to balance
that with the size and weight of the gun as it relates to whether or not you could easily
concealed carry it.

What Else Should You Know About Buying a Handgun?

A solid piece of advice for buying your first handgun is that it’s usually smart to ignore the advice of the guy behind the gun counter. It’s also wise not to consider what you read on social media to be gospel. That’s not to say there aren’t competent people working at gun stores, because there are, but only that they tend to be the exception rather than the rule. Basically, it pays to be cautious who you accept advice from. Never allow yourself to be forced or cajoled into buying a certain gun.

We have all had our first handguns, with mixed results. It’s almost a rite of passage. Do your homework, test out as many handguns as possible, and make the best choice possible based on the information at hand. Then, hit the range. Get shooting and training time in. Experience will change your perspective of certain things, but that’s a good thing. Learn from qualified instructors as you go, stick to it, and you’ll be a seasoned shooter in no time.


  1. I have carried a Bersa firestorm .380 for over thirty years and it has always gone bang when I wanted it to. I am getting old 71 and the front sight is getting very blurry. I am considering buying a SCCY 9mm or just getting a laser sight for the Bursa. Any Suggestions?

    • Rod Mins, I’m not far behind you, and I had to replace my old carry gun with something with better sights for the exact same reason. Not knocking the SCCY guns, but the earlier guns were Double Action Only with a not inconsiderable trigger pull (around 11 to 13 lbs on the couple I’ve fired I’d estimate). With their newer guns, one model is striker fired, and I believe comes with the slide milled for a Red Dot sight. This wouldn’t be a bad option for you. I believe it can be purchased with a Crimson Trace Red Dot already mounted
      With age and Uncle Arthur, our dexterity and hand strength deteriorates. I’d recommend that whatever you choose, it’s a gun that easy to cycle the slide. Watching my buddies around our age, that seems to be an issue for many of us.
      I went to a SIG P365 with Night Sights 8 years ago. They really “popped” for me in Low Light Drills, but the day is coming when I’ll either have to buy a slide milled for a RD, or have mine milled. At the time I bought mine, SIG hadn’t released their Optic Ready version of the gun yet. SIG does offer the P365 in .380 and 9mm. Which gives you the option of upping the caliber, or sticking to the familiar .380.
      Walther has their CCP gun. It has a very easy slide racking, as it’s system doesn’t depend on the recoil spring to slow the slide when fired. It also reduces recoil impulse. Available in 9mm or .380, I believe they offer a Red Dot ready version as well now.
      I haven’t put a Red Dot on any of my pistols yet, but I did put them on both of my AR’s, and it really is the wave of the future. Target acquisition is so much faster than even when my eyes were younger.
      You could have a competent gunsmith look at your Bersa to see if the slide can be milled.
      The least expensive option is to add a laser to your gun. Crimson Trace still makes Laser Grips for the Bersa. They are user installed, and you’ll have to adjust the the laser for point of aim/point of impact but that just takes a little time at the range. That’s what I did for my wife’s S&W mod 60, and she’s been very happy with the gun and laser.
      As for Red Dots, there are several reputable models on the market. I’ve had good luck with the SIG and Vortex models on my ARs, but there are otherworldlyr reputable brands by Leupold, Holosun, Tropicana, and others. Avoid the Chinese cheapies, they just aren’t built as sturdy as the American made Optics and the optical quality can be really bad. Expect to spend from $200 and up for a good RD.
      Good Luck with whatever you choose to do. I’m not an expert, but just a guy that’s been going through thosd same vision changes.
      I miss my old Walther PPK/S. I still have it, but it’s a range baby now. It was a comforting friend for a long time. I just couldn’t take having it modified, because of its value (emotional and monetarily), so the only option was replacing it.

      Best Wishes

  2. I don’t envy the author the writing of an article like this. There are so many variables to take into consideration, that it’s a sysiphean struggle to cover all of the variables, especially for new gun buyers. If there is a range in your area that rents guns, I do believe that’s the best option for a newbie. This gives you the option of trying different models and calibers, before buying. Research, read everything you can find. Join forums, and don’t be afraid to say you are new to this. Most forum members remember when they were “new” too.
    I do recommend avoiding Big Box Stores. Most of the sales staff at these stores to be woefully misinformed about the products they sell. While it may cost a little more up front, cultivating a relationship with a locally owned gun store (LGS), is a much better way to go in my experience. Your LGS wants your repeat business more than just the one time sale.
    The author has done a good job with this article in my opinion. This is a very difficult subject to write about, and Kat did a good job of avoiding bias in the article, which is a very difficult thing to avoid bias in my opinion.
    Well done Kat. I look forward to your future writings

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